I am an AASECT certified sex educator and therapist. I hold a doctorate in human sexuality studies and a masters in counseling psychology. I am also an author, writer, and guest speaker/lecturer. I am currently the columnist for playgirl.com, writing their Psychology of Sex column.

 

Before becoming a therapist, I had a career as a sex educator and radio producer for the Internet talk show LoveBytes with Bob Berkowitz on the now defunct eyada.com . I also gained tremendous experience working at the world-famous Babeland in New York City, and then going on to make educational videos for Adam & Eve as well as the Lovers adult boutiques in the Pacific Northwest.

 

With a career spanning the gamut in human sexuality, one thing has never changed - I love talking to, and with, people about intimacy, sex and relationships. 

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I am a also a member of SSSS and AASECT. 

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Areas of Expertise:

 

Sexuality

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Relationship & Couples Counseling

 

Mismatched Sexual Desire & Libido

 

Coming Out and LGBTQ Issues

 

Alternative Sexual Styles (Kink/BDSM) & Relationship

Paradigms (Non-Monogamy/Poly/Swinging)

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Inability to Orgasm/Anorgasmia

 

Sexual Shame/Self-Consciousness/Anxiety/Guilt

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Sexual Orientation Confusion

 

Concerns Around Pornography Use or Sexual Preferences 

 

Attachment styles

 

Sexual Pain

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Vaginismus 

 

Erectile Disorders

 

Asexuality

 

Romantic and Sexual Inexperience 

 

Working with Sexual Surrogates

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For more on my books, check out these links:

How to Break Up With Anyone

Getting Off: A Woman's Guide to Masturbation

Hot Sex: Over 200 Things You Can Try Tonight

 

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